I ask the Lord often, “Show me what my children need, and how they need to be loved today.”

The other night, my daughter once again was upset that it wasn’t her birthday.. Ha! It’s funny because I know many parents have heard their child ask this question time and time again, but do we understand the depth of this heart cry, and why it is so important to them?

So I asked her, “Why do you want it to be your birthday?” She explained that on birthdays people are celebrated, they have lots of fun, and get lots of attention.

In that moment, God showed me that what my daughter was really needing was a day where I spent hours with her, pampering her, and making her feel like the princess that she truly is!

So we went to the hair salon together. She has never seen her hair straight before, so once she saw herself in the mirror; She felt like a new person— One that is seen, celebrated, and truly loved.

One of her major love languages are gifts, which can also be expressed through experiential gifts such as pampering. So when these needs are not met, I will see a heart that isn’t fully satisfied. Yes, Our ultimate satisfaction is only found in union with God, however we are not only spirit beings, but we live in a body that carries a soul with emotions and needs; we long to be recognised and celebrated by those we love most.

So I want to encourage all the parents, grandparents, spouses, and even the children out there; to look beyond the words and actions of your loved ones and asked the spirit of God IN YOU to reveal the root need that isn’t being met.

For we are in such a time as now, where the Lord is preparing a people who’s hearts are UNIFIED and ready to see the revealing of Yeshua Himself.

“He will go before the Lord as a forerunner, with the same power and anointing as Elijah the prophet. He will be instrumental in turning the hearts of the fathers in tenderness back to their children and the hearts of the disobedient back to the wisdom of their righteous fathers. And he will prepare a UNITED people who are ready for the Lord’s appearing.” Luke‬ ‭1:17‬ ‭TPT‬‬


  1. “Anyone with ears to hear must listen to the Holy Spirit God and understand what he is saying to the churches.”
    Revelation 3:13

    “Sometimes we have to see with our ears and listen with our eyes.”
    Billy Mango

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